Is Bruce Lee Sexy? Sex and the Asian Community in America

A recent poll at Quizilla revealed that 35% of women and even 16% of men admitted that Asian icon Bruce Lee was sexy.  This was the majority vote, and only a small percentage of women stated that they didn’t find him attractive.  What does this teach us about the Asian community in America today?

What it says to me is that some Asian men are simply too hung up on the race issue to really reach out and take what they want.  There’s nothing wrong with an Asian male going out with white women or Latina women.  Most people don’t care about interracial relationships anymore, so it’s not like it’s a scandalous thing.  Most women, as the poll indicates, are even quick to describe some iconic Asian males as very sexy.

Yes, it is possible that some women may say they don’t feel attraction to Asians.  However, you have to take such a statement with a grain of salt.  Women are not motivated by physical attraction.  Women want to be emotionally stimulated.  They want their passions aroused and their emotions fulfilled.  A woman is not going to instantly know if a man has this sexy attitude just by his facial appearance.  (Yes body language is important, but faces are just extensions of the soul)  Usually a woman who makes such a blanket statement is associating her past with her present.  Maybe she believes that because she’s never dated an Asian, she can’t feel attraction to him.  Or maybe she believes that because she’s only dated black or white men, that’s what she’s attracted to.  Wrong!  She’s attracted to the alpha male profile, and any man of any race is capable of becoming that man.

Perhaps the biggest problem in Asian interracial dating is with the men themselves.  Asian players need to step up and realize that they are sexual beings like anyone else and deserve whatever woman they set their eyes on.  Don’t buy into all this trash about being out of the league of a beautiful white woman, or that all white women automatically reject Asians because of some sexual stereotypes.  The first step in scoring with white women is to get over your own self-limiting attitude and then focus on breaking down your woman’s own self-limiting barriers.

Bruce Lee was sexy, because he was an alpha male.  He was fearless, physically fit, ultra-disciplined and could hold some killer eye contact with the best of them.  You could be even sexier than Bruce Lee and redefine the modern sex symbol for your local Asian community!

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Nudity And Sex In American Movies

Nudity ands sex in movies can be controversial because some people are uptight about seeing it shown. The United States has a different view on nudity compared to Europe. On some European channels television commercials themselves have nudity, try pulling that off on American television. In many cultures, the nudity and sex factor in movies is governed by a tiered system of censorship. These systems are aimed at limiting children’s access to content that is deemed harmful by the public, the government, the movie industry itself including the Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA). This is a good thing because it properly limits racy content to adults.

Nudity and sex in American films are looked at by movie critics and viewers with a strong eye. Was the nudity or sex shown artistically to impact the story or was it completely gratuitous nudity and sex that added nothing to the movie? That is often the divide. A few movies that have been tagged as the later are “Showgirls” directed by Paul Verhoeven. The movie received an NC-17 rating because of the nudity and simulated sex scenes. It was a very controversial movie when it came out. Rape, lesbianism, and interracial relationships were some of the subjects covered in the movie. In a nutshell it’s about an attractive female drifter that climbs up from a stripper to a showgirl in Las Vegas. Whatever the movie was or was not I watched it an knew what to expect. It would have been strange to see a movie about a Las Vegas stripper that did not have nudity and sex. It would have had no realism in my opinion.

“Swordfish” directed by Dominic Sena and starring Hollywood stars John Travolta and Halle Berry is another movie that is tagged for gratuitous nudity. In brief the movie is about a bad guy who hires a computer hacker to help him electronically steal billions of dollars. The one scene that some people complained about was Halle Berry going topless for apparently no reason. Or as critics put it the scene was so out of context and did nothing to move the story or develop her character. The urban legend is she was paid an extra 2 million dollars for the topless scene. Regardless, I bet that scene helped sell a lot of movie tickets and DVD’s. While some say making movies is done for the art, the bottom line is always the money. Good call by the producers to add that scene.

“Hitman” directed by Xavier Gens has been viewed as offensive by some viewers because of the nudity and sex in the movie. The plot summary from IMDB.COM is this, A gun-for-hire known only as Agent 47 is ensnared in a political conspiracy, which finds him pursued by both Interpol and the Russian military as he treks across Eastern Europe. hired by a group known as “The Agency” to kill targets for cash. The main character Agent 47 finds himself in the company of Nika who is nude in a hotel room and shown straddling Agent 47 nude. I’m guessing this movie inspired by a video game was made as a total guy movie. I felt the nudity fit the plot because it was the art of seduction being played out by a woman who lived a dangerous life. She survived using her looks and cunning.

“Consignment” directed by Sid Kali is a killer urban action movie. It is gritty and realistic keeping to the beat of the rougher side of life dealing drugs. Based on true events, “Consignment” is about Tommy Jones, a reluctant East Coast drug dealer on the run with his wife, Yolanda, after a rival kingpin’s plan to have him ripped-off and murdered goes wrong. Double-crosses, a series of brutal murders, and an old secret from his wife’s past foils Tommy’s plans for a new start at life. This direct to video movie has taken some heat for a few scenes in it. First there is a very hot striptease scene where a curvy Latina seduces two drug dealers going topless down to a g-string. I have been in Las Vegas strip clubs and bachelor parties where that is the norm. Nothing offensive to me. I thought it fit the story because the stripper was a plant for a rival drug dealer learning what she could about his enemies. I thought Director Sid Kali showed the nudity in a tasteful and seductive light. The other is a rape scene where a female drug dealer is pulled from a shower and forced to give up the whereabouts of her former crime partner and lover. I myself do not know anyone that showers in their clothes except those two guys in the movie “Weird Science”. I thought the scene was powerful and added impact to the story because of the way it was shown. The focus was never the nudity but the pain on the face of the female drug dealer. Bravo to that actress! Bravo Sid Kali!

Other art house movies or movies that show nudity and sex are sometimes loved because the nudity and sex is deemed artistic. “Monster’s Ball” directed by Marc Foster landed star Halle Berry an Oscar for Best Actress in a Leading Role. Plot summary from IMDB.COM Set in the Southern United States, ‘Monster’s Ball’ is a tale of a racist white man, Hank (played by Billy Bob Thornton), who falls in love with a black woman named Leticia (Halle Berry). Ironically Hank is a prison guard working on Death Row who executed Leticia’s husband (Sean Combs). Hank and Leticia’s interracial affair leads to confusion and new ideas for the two unlikely lovers. It had one of the most intense graphic love scenes I’ve seen in a movie. Some came out against it claiming it portrays black women as ferocious and lewd, with an appetite for sexual encounters, portrayed by the animalistic and raw quality of the sex scene and its racial context. Others say the scene shows two people’s desperate need for affection and comfort in the face of human tragedy. Whatever the case Halle Berry won an Oscar. She is an amazing actress.

“The Brown Bunny” directed by Vincent Gallo, who also stars in it with Chole Sevingy is a fiery independent film that takes a chance pushing the creative envelope. Plot summary pulled from IMDB.COM Professional motorcycle racer Bud Clay heads from New Hampshire to California to race again. Along the way he meets various needy women who provide him with the cure to his own loneliness, but only a certain woman from his past will truly satisfy him. What sets this movie apart is the highly controversial scene of actual oral sex between Gallo and co-star Chloe Sevigny in a shabby motel room. What made this scene so gripping was the sex scene was shown in such a lonely and painful way. Director Vincent Gallo captured the desperate and shallow feelings of the characters. That scene was included in the movie for shock appeal, it was there to show human pain during what most people think is a pleasurable experience. Bravo for taking the chance on making a radical movie. This director is a rock star! Bravo Vincent Gallo!

Overall I think nudity and sex are part of life. To censor it out of movies is not the answer. I say let movie makers put out their work, including nudity and sex, and let the viewers decide if they want to watch it or not. There are a ton of movies out there with no nudity or sex. Leave the option and the choice to the masses.

Dating Latina Women and Latino Men Online – Are You Ready?

Looking to date hot Latino men or sexy Latina women? You have to find out what they are like. Dating Latino men and women is an exciting romance, as well as finding them showering you with all their sexiness!

If you seek to date a Latina woman or a Latino man, it is important to remember about the cultural differences between the sexes. Below may be stereotypical Latin descriptions and the person you meet will be unique, so just be really open minded about it.

Dating Latina Women

Latina women who grew from a traditional family background have been taught to do everything for their man. Latinas are told not to show off or brag. Latina women have also been taught to be coy and demure in their dating and relationships.

However, be aware that for Latina women, casual flirting, hugging, and touching are common among their new acquaintances and friends, and this does not mean there are romantic feelings attached to such actions. So, quit day dreaming about that Latina girl who is only just being friendly to you. Do not misunderstand signals. Is she romantically interested about you?

A Latina woman is often times raised in the Catholic faith. If you are romantically involved with a Latina woman, a conversation about religion will be a crucial matter in your relationship. Now is the time for you to go to church with her!

Dating Latino Men

Latino men are taught to expect a woman to take care of them, and also follow traditional gentlemanly roles like opening doors and sweeping you off your feet. Latinos are expected to be strong and humble. Latino men are famous for being very romantic, easily sweeping a woman off her feet, essentially because they really adore women. Is a Latino man the right guy for you?

Casual flirting is common from Latino men. They are also comfortable sitting closely. Casual hugging and touching with friends during interactions is also frequent, but often without romantic intentions. So, just keep that in mind, so your heart will not be broken.

Many Latino men are mainly in the Catholic faith, and still hold onto the traditions of their religion. If you are not very religious, you will be, once you start dating a Latino man.

Dating Latino men and Latina women is more than just physical sexiness. Once your heart is under their spell, you will have to embrace and appreciate all the traditions and cultural beliefs they have. After all, dating is getting to know each other.